Sunday, October 17, 2010

Perfectionism


 All week I have been meaning to write. I have been meaning to put together a cover letter for an internship. I want this cover letter to be professional but also relatively entertaining to read. This cover letter will posses a perfect combo of personality and enthusiasm that will shine through my writing. I mean seriously, the perfection and absolute beauty of my cover letter will just leave the reader in a total daze, the type of daze only an orgasmic experience can leave you in. It will be perfectly short, and to the point, but it will totally brain fuck you. Once my cover letter has been read, there's no turning back. It will only intrigue the reader to personally hand deliver my resume to the president of the company. From then on the possibilities are endless. I will probably be recommended as editor to some prestigious publication. Who could blame them? My cover letter would be totally perfect.

 The problem here is I wrote absolutely no such thing. In fact I am paralyzed. I cant write anything because there is a pretty hefty chance it wont resemble that damn orgasmic cover letter of my dreams. Oh, the cruelty of reality! This brings me to think of perfectionism as the voice of the oppressor. I once read of a study concerning what I believe perfectionism produces in our personalities. The professor had two groups of students in a pottery class. One group was told their work would be judged on quantity of work produced not quality. The other group was given the task of creating just a couple pieces of art, with the goal of quality in mind, perfection. For one month the quantity group and the quality group worked. At the end of the study the group with the best quality of work turned out to actually be the quantity group. The group that focused on perfection pretty much drove themselves bonkers about making it so perfect, ironically, they didn't achieve their goal at all. The quantity group, because of so much practice and so many tries with no perfection in mind, became impressively talented. 




I hear people say quality is better than quantity, when work is concerned. But there is a flawless honesty  in trying. Mental algorithms of perfection can never surpass the reality of excellence practice can give you. If anything perfectionism is a mental disease of sorts, keeping us judgmental and routine. I know some will say ,"But isn't perfectionism the goal of attaining excellence?". No, trying is the goal of attaining excellence. Anything else is our minds neurosis, a delusion of what "perfection"is, and perfection is nothing but an opinion. It holds no truth on its own besides what we believe perfection to be.


My opinion on perfection is different than yours, and that's fine. You might think a perfect cover letter should definitely not be orgasmic. I believe you are insane and should get some help. Ideally perfection should not limit us, it should not put us down. It should not be a mental obsession because then you truly aren't living. Focus on quantity, try, then maybe the results will surpass even your own opinion of perfection and will become something even greater. 

So I guess now its time to go write this cover letter. ..

8 comments:

  1. I love this! I want a copy of that cover letter sent to me when it is written because I haven't had a good orgasum in a while....lol

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  2. This in itself is an awesome cover letter. :)
    Cheers - Dora (www.peacefrompieces.blogspot.com)

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  3. Great post Raimi! You have a very insightful views of the "quantity vs. quality" premise.

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  4. I love your post Raimi! thanks for following me.... ill follow you too! yes when u travel here in Europe let me know!

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  5. Well, to me the quality in writings and the interesting contents in it are equally important; and I am personally less favor for the quantity.
    As a writer, you have accomplished yr vision in distinguishing the difference between quantity and quality in writings. Wow, I love yr insight!

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  6. Raimi, Quality is perfection and it is beautiful when one achieves this in anything they do.

    Beautifully written keep up the great work.

    Jessica
    http://www.findingonesway.com

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  7. I completely agree. The judgmental and creative states of mind are usually mutually exclusive. Setting unrealistic standards of perfection can definitely be paralyzing, creatively and in general. The fear of failing to live up to these lofty goals can easily discourage a person before they even start. A simple task can suddenly come to look like a towering and insurmountable wall, and we stand in the shadow of it crushed under the weight of our own expectations. Even if someone DOES begin and struggles to complete the task without shaking this pressure they've put on themselves, such as the subjects in that pottery experiment, the work suffers because the tight grip of anxiety hinders the creative flow. But what can you do? In a perfect world we'd all relax and get down to business without being bogged down by these nagging doubts and self-imposed anxieties. But that's definitely easier said than done. I guess all we can try to do is settle down, and let it all come out, mess and all. At the very least, we can try to remember that we can always clean up after ourselves later.

    By the way, I love that last picture with the faces being poured out. That's awesome.

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  8. Perfectionism and the Quality over Quantity debate are fraught topics for me. I've still some way to go before I find their "happy place" within me. Really enjoyed your post Raimi, thanks.

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